Lhwhyh’s Story How My Loss Inspired My Therapist Journey
My Firstborn Son, Lhwhyh
Lhwhyh was my firstborn, my heart, and my greatest joy. He was born early and faced numerous medical challenges from the start. He didn't walk or talk until around the age of 3, but despite those obstacles, Lhwhyh’s spirit was always vibrant. He was a happy child, full of smiles and laughter, lighting up every room he entered. No matter how hard things were for him physically, he never let it stop him from embracing life.
As a mother, I found strength in his strength. I watched my son navigate a world that wasn’t always kind to him, but he did so with such grace and resilience. His severe asthma was a constant battle, but Lhwhyh’s courage never wavered. He faced his challenges head-on, and his joy was contagious.
An Unexpected Loss That Changed Everything
In 2013, when Lhwhyh was just 8 years old, his asthma claimed his life unexpectedly. It was a day that turned my world upside down. One moment, he was my smiling, energetic little boy, and the next, he was gone. The grief was overwhelming. I struggled to make sense of a world without him in it, and for a long time, it felt impossible.
As a mother, the pain of losing a child is unlike any other. The life you built, the future you imagined, shatters in an instant. I was not only grieving the loss of my son but the dreams I had for him—the milestones he would never reach, the experiences we would never share.
Why I Became a Grief Therapist
Through this devastating loss, I learned that grief is not something you "get over." It’s a journey, and for each of us, that journey looks different. There is no timeline for healing, and there is no right or wrong way to grieve. What I discovered, however, was that healing comes in moments—sometimes small and quiet, sometimes in waves. And with each moment of healing, I found purpose.
I became a grief therapist to help others on their own grief journeys. Losing Lhwhyh gave me a unique perspective and a deep empathy for those who are suffering through loss. I know firsthand what it feels like to be lost in grief, and I also know that there is hope, even in the darkest moments.
My mission is to provide a space for others to navigate their grief, to feel supported, and to find their own path to healing—whether that’s through talking, silence, or simply being understood.
Honoring Lhwhyh’s Legacy
Lhwhyh’s life, though short, left an indelible mark on me and everyone who knew him. His joy, his smile, his resilience—they continue to inspire me every day. Becoming a grief therapist is my way of honoring his memory. I want to help others who are struggling, just as I struggled, to find peace and purpose in their grief.
No one should have to walk this journey alone. My goal is to walk beside those who are grieving, to offer support, understanding, and hope—one moment at a time.
If you’re struggling with grief, whether it’s recent or something you’ve carried for years, I am here to help you on your journey. Together, we can find a way to honor your loved one and navigate the path forward.